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insomnispense

gato farts
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January 24 2009 12:17 PM QuickQuote

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Originally posted by: tom.

i hate pop music

listen to iron lung, trap them and warhorse all day. do it.

tom.

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January 24 2009 12:22 PM QuickQuote

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i don't want to get angry
i want to be a pussy

Davey.

Iron Hog
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January 24 2009 12:24 PM QuickQuote

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Originally posted by:tom.

i don't want to get angry
i want to eat pussy

WREN

Wolfman
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January 24 2009 12:40 PM QuickQuote

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Originally posted by:tom.

i don't want to get angry
i want to be a pussy

self loathing never helps.

you need to focus on the things in your life that are positive and do things that don't require a girlfriend. I see you are going the gym with Chris. Thats a good start and a great stress reliever.

insomnispense

gato farts
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January 24 2009 12:44 PM QuickQuote

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Originally posted by: tom.

i don't want to get angry
i want to be a pussy

never a good idea, man. i used to do this and listen to the bands that we used to listen to together or stupid shit like that. it's pure torture. don't do it to yourself.

J LANSDALE

is wesleygibson
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January 24 2009 12:46 PM QuickQuote

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Originally posted by:tom.

When you convince yourself that you truly love someone, you convince yourself that there's nothing better out there.
I can't just unconvince myself and press on.

I FUCKING FEEL YOUR FUCKING PAIN TOM.
NOTHING MAKES THIS HURT GO AWAY

Amanda OMGWTF

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January 24 2009 12:55 PM QuickQuote

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1. i realize i'm going to be in for a world of hurt. in admitting to myself i'm going to be in a lot of emotional pain, it allows me to become sort of mentally prepared for it.

2. i remind myself that despite "what's coming," i'll feel better eventually - just like i have in the past. feeling sad and angry are normal and i have to let myself feel that way until it's out of my system so i can get from point a to point b, but i will NOT let it interfere with the bigger picture. this is my life, this pain is a part of it and i'm not going to suffer without reason.

i guess it's sort of a rational approach to coping with serious heartache - you get to feel all the hurt you want, but without it ruining your life. you reap all the benefits of it instead, and you end up a better person for it. there's really something to be said for literally saying outloud, "this is going to hurt, i know it's going to hurt, but i'll be okay and i'll do whatever i can to get through this." it does no good to deny your feelings, but it's just as bad to let yourself drown in them.

richard

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January 24 2009 1:01 PM QuickQuote

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drink excessive amounts of alcohol and have sex with people who i do not know very well, or at all.

stupid bitch

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January 24 2009 1:04 PM QuickQuote

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i make a couch fort and gather my defenses.

tom.

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January 24 2009 1:09 PM QuickQuote

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Originally posted by: WREN

Originally posted by:tom.

i don't want to get angry
i want to be a pussy

self loathing never helps.

you need to focus on the things in your life that are positive and do things that don't require a girlfriend. I see you are going the gym with Chris. Thats a good start and a great stress reliever.

all i do is positive shit.
it's just hard to let go of something you believe in..
imagine if you fucked up with dianna. i just gave up everything in hopes of redemption. now i'm empty handed.

definitely at rock bottom right now.

burn your HOUSE down

burn,baby burn
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January 24 2009 1:09 PM QuickQuote

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burn down couch forts

yantastic

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January 24 2009 1:15 PM QuickQuote

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chocolate's DELICIOUS, faggots

WREN

Wolfman
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January 24 2009 1:20 PM QuickQuote

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Originally posted by:tom.

Originally posted by: WREN

Originally posted by:tom.

i don't want to get angry
i want to be a pussy

self loathing never helps.

you need to focus on the things in your life that are positive and do things that don't require a girlfriend. I see you are going the gym with Chris. Thats a good start and a great stress reliever.

all i do is positive shit.
it's just hard to let go of something you believe in..
imagine if you fucked up with dianna. i just gave up everything in hopes of redemption. now i'm empty handed.

definitely at rock bottom right now.

as much as i'd be beat up about it, i wouldn't beat myself up over it. I went out with an ex of mine for 2 years. During the course of the last 8 months of the 2nd year she cheated on me about 7 times. Atleast thats how many i know of. I was a mess during those months and for a few months afterwards. I thought there was no better. The one thing i learned is that its not worth beating yourself up over it. I had the longest pity party ever and it wasn't worth it. I don't regret things i've done but if i could go back and have a talk with myself from then i would shake my oldself silly.

Don't do what i did. It's not worth it.

Dianana

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January 24 2009 1:53 PM QuickQuote

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"If you aren't going to love me, I'll find someone else who will."
and will do it better.

My only real heartbreak happened when I was young, like 14 young. I can't really contribute to this thread other than what I already said.

cbrickhouse

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January 24 2009 1:53 PM QuickQuote

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light a match and walk away

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