Him: "I'll drive up to Buffalo toward the end of March on a weekend and we can meet to have lunch.
Me: ok, cool
Three days later-
Him: I'm going to come up in a week or two and I'm staying in Toronto. Can I stay in your building?
Me: oh ok, that might work can I know which weekend?
Him: I'll let you know
Two days later (today)
Him: I was going to come visit tomorrow but decided not to because of the snow.
Me: What are you talking about I'm not even going to be home tomorrow.
Him: Well i'm free I was going to come up and get a hotel on the outskirts of the city so I don't have to drive in traffic and you can meet me.
Me: I need a notice and we would have to drive back into the city anyway
Him: I dont want to go into the city, we can get lunch
Me: Why would you drive 7 hours to get lunch in a suburb
Him: I'll be up there at 7, can you meet me at 7?
Me: No. I am not getting up at 4 am to meet you. Just come in the afternoon